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Claudia P. Sconion posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, April 7, 2024
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Tiara Crandle posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
Uncle Bobby,
on your visits you often gave thanks for our circle being unbroken
today we will thank God that our circle is NOT broken
we will learn to accept that your physical absence has no bearing on your presence in our life
you gave to us from a selfless heart and in return only asked that we share that knowledge with others
"each one is to teach one"
you always came with a smile, comedic relief and on a mission to uplift and empower
we spoke about how people never forget how others make them feel ...
Uncle Bobby you ALWAYS made us feel good and feel loved
you encouraged us to be mindful of how we used our time and influence while on this earth
you never missed an opportunity to express how you felt about each of us
you provided a listening ear for our goals, aspirations and struggles
"although we were separated by distance, you found time to call or text ... and keep an open line of communication
you cherished our queen aka teensy weensy...
you viewed her as sister, a friend, and as a mom
it was rare that you spoke of your family and didn't shed a tear
your passion for family, servitude, and unity was evident with every word spoken and every tear shed
those tears were shed without shame but as a sentiment to the overwhelming amount of love that filled your heart.
yes, Your physical departure has us hurting and longing to embrace you one more time but we will stand, together
your legacy, your convictions, your spirit will live on through us, your team.
we were blessed by your presence you left a lasting impact
so despite the grief we all feel
This is STILL a happy friday and
This circle is not broken
we will make peace with knowing that God has rewarded your faithfulness with eternal rest.
Get your rest Uncle Bobby,
we have accepted your charge and will carry on the mission.
To aunt sheena.... Thank you for taking care of our precious gem in his last days. you were self less, loving, and just the support our uncle bobby needed.
we love you and once again we thank you
Much love from your family in NC and Virginia
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Annette Moore posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Left behind are so many precious memories of my
Beloved Uncle “B”
Many summer trips/stays in Sicklerville, NJ
First time flying (Judy and I) from NC to Philly
Living with you and your family for almost 2 years
That big bright smile you ALWAYS wore
Your gentle yet firm embrace
All the personalized ‘Happy Friday’ text messages Always offering words of wisdom-Caring and Sharing
Your unwavering love and support shown to family, friends and community….”WELL DONE”
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James C. Moore posted a condolence
Friday, February 16, 2024
The First...
The first time I rode in a VW Beetle or “Bug” was with my Unc. I got out of school early on a Friday morning so we could make the trip from Farmville, North Carolina (NC) to South Hill, Virginia (VA) for the wedding rehearsal. Yes, this was the first (and last time) I was a ring bearer. This was also my first overnight stay without my parents.
The first time I drove a car was truly exciting. It turned out to be a lot more thrilling than either one of us could have imagined because I almost wrecked two cars, the car I was attempting to drive and the parked car at the top of the cul-de-sac. If not for Unc’s quick thinking and cat like reflexes, this experience would have been a disaster, but it turned out alright thanks to Unc.
The first time I was introduced to a gourmet meal was during a trip to Sicklerville, New Jersey (NJ). It was an omelet prepared by Unc and it was a masterpiece made with fresh cracked eggs, cheese, salt, pepper, and the secret ingredient…. sliced hotdog wiener. Who knew a hotdog could be used in such a fashion? Only a man with creativity and ingenuity. By the way, that trip to NJ was my first solo trip on Amtrak which ended at Philadelphia’s 30th Street Station. I had never seen such a place.
The first summer camp I attended was in NJ with Unc, Aunt Pernell and Kesha and what a summer it was! That was the first time I witnessed a real-life entrepreneur in action. That was the summer that Harris Janitorial Services kicked off. We worked side by side, mopping and buffing the floors of Franny Briggs (formerly the Winslow House, currently Brigalias) banquet facility. The entrepreneur didn’t stop at cleaning the banquet floors. This is the first time I witnessed a group of African American men work together to create Red Carpet Productions which hosted a very elegant party at the very same Franny Briggs Banquet Hall. These early endeavors were just the launching pad for things to come. Like Spotlight, the safety supply business that he started. Speaking of Spotlight, that was my first professional job after graduating college. Unc wanted to expand his operations from NJ to NC. I learned a lot from that experience by making cold calls and working in a professional sales environment. I continued to see the entrepreneurial spirit evolve with the birth of Carolina Beauty Supplies which satisfied the need for community members to have access to hair care supplies and beauty products. Always understanding the ecosystem around him, he realized there was limited access to fraternity and sorority paraphernalia for the Divine Nine organizations. His creative wheels started turning, within a blink of the eye, Carolina Beauty became a one-stop-shop to include Greek organizations paraphernalia, a centralized event ticket distribution location, and an inviting gathering place.
There were a few first conversations I recall having with Unc. There was one about birds and bees or something like that. There was another topic about professional options highlighted with expressing the importance of getting an education. He knew that scholarships provide a pathway to opportunities that extended well beyond the fields, farms, and factories that he grew up around. There was never any shade on blue collar occupations, because hard and honest work are great characteristics for everyone to have. Unc just wanted to expose me to the possibilities beyond what I saw day-in and day-out growing up in rural eastern North Carolina.
The first time I saw a community leader and relationship builder up close and personal was when I saw his involvement in organizations such as A.B.L.E (Association of Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs) and later the beloved DOT (Dreams of Tomorrow) organization and the Omega Psi Phi, fraternity. These organizations often produced events such as bowling parties, fashion shows, oldie but goodie parties, pancake breakfasts, Purple & Gold Balls, golf tournaments, Mardi Gras, etc. However, these were not activities to just give the community something to do. These were fund raisers to uplift the community, specifically the young people, to generate scholarships creating a pathway to education and opportunities beyond South Jersey (i.e., Sicklerville, Williamstown, Glassboro, and the surrounding areas). These were vessels to foster mentoring, to serve as role models, and to showcase positive African American men and women making a difference in the community. These organizations reached beyond the African American neighborhoods, they involved the entire community because success requires everyone to work together to make a better place to live, work, and raise a family. He established, nurtured, and leveraged relationships with all sizes and types of businesses (sole proprietors, LLCs, fortune 500s). He worked with community leaders, elected officials, clergy, organizations (e.g., NAACP) to come together for the common good.
The first time I saw sustained passion to support a cause was when it came to the dedication required to keep African American history alive. You could always count on the MLK Jr. Breakfast to celebrate his life while educating some and reminding others on what Dr. King stood for and represented. It didn’t stop there; voter registration was always a conversation topic. While he never directly stated this, I know February was a special month to him because Black Excellence was on national display, he proudly promoted and boldly supported our history.
The first time I heard about the men that wore purple and gold was from Unc. He said, “man, it means something to wear those colors (purple and gold) because Omega Psi Phi is the greatest fraternity in the world.” And of course, I believed him, the rest is history.
The first time I learned it was okay to say “I love you man” was because Unc was not shy about expressing his love and support for his family. Unc always supported me, he was so proud when I reached my own life milestones regardless of how big or small. There was graduating HS, graduating college, earning a master’s degree, getting married, purchasing a house, becoming a father, supporting my family, crossing the burning sands and much more. He was there for every milestone.
Unc often talked about the life lessons he learned from the great women who raised him. There’s a direct correlation between that loving and caring upbringing that help mold him into the Bobby W. Harris that touched so many lives. He treasured quality time with his family and friends, making lasting memories that will be with us for years to come. Unc and Aunt Sheena took many vacations for much-needed rest and relaxation, to enjoy life and each other, and recharge his battery from all the hard work serving the community and maintaining relationships. The work never stopped, Unc persevered and kept working no matter what challenges or obstacles were before him. He kept the family centric approach front and center. He made visits home to NC to spend time with loved ones, to celebrate birthdays, to attend sporting events, to spend holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas (wearing matching pajamas), enjoying one of his favorite foods, (neck bones) and generating laughter from jokes and the never-ending teasing while assigning nicknames like Pooter and Ms. Piggy, just to name a few. Did you know that every niece and nephew was his “favorite niece / favorite nephew,” it all depended on which one he was talking to that time. There was always a huge inviting smile for everyone which made your heart full and warm. He would often say that he wanted to “give folks flowers now” and he did just that to so many. He started the “Friday Text” message tradition which became a staple and something we all looked forward to each week. Did anyone else think they were the only one receiving Friday Text messages? For me, Fridays will not be the same without my new weekly text message, but I have fond memories and archived text messages to reference when needed.
With so many first experiences with Unc, it stands to reason that life lessons he shared with me for nearly 60 years was a contributing factor for me being the son, the husband, the father, the brother, the uncle, the cousin, the friend, the Omega man, the professional, the provider and protector that I am. Thanks Unc for pouring so much into me, setting the example of manhood and creating the road map for me (and many others) to follow.
Let me be the first to say that “you lived a productive and impactful life, now rest well my friend – until we meet again!”
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Denise Moore lit a candle
Thursday, February 15, 2024
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Take your rest my sweet Uncle Bobby. Job well done!
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Dennis Boyd lit a candle
Sunday, February 11, 2024
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I would like to send my condolences and prayers to the family and friends of Bobby. I met Bobby a few years ago and what a pleasure it was meeting him. Bobby was a class act from day one and that never change. I know that he is going to be missed by all those who knew him but God saw that his work on earth was done and called him to his heavenly home to get his reward. R. I. P. Bobby
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Saturday, February 10, 2024
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The Reid & Jackson Family extend our deepest sympathy to the family. Bobbie was a very special cousin and will be dearly missed. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Thursday, February 8, 2024
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Wednesday, February 7, 2024
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Visitation
9:00 am - 11:00 am
Friday, February 16, 2024
Christ Care Unit Missionary Baptist Church and Cathedral
242 Sicklerville Road
Sicklerville, New Jersey, United States
856-875-1633
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Omega Rites
10:15 am - 10:30 am
Friday, February 16, 2024
Christ Care Unit Missionary Baptist Church and Cathedral
242 Sicklerville Road
Sicklerville, New Jersey, United States
856-875-1633
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16
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Celebration of Life Services
11:00 am
Friday, February 16, 2024
Christ Care Unit Missionary Baptist Church and Cathedral
242 Sicklerville Road
Sicklerville, New Jersey, United States
856-875-1633
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Interment
1:45 pm
Friday, February 16, 2024
Berlin Cemetery
40 Clementon Road
Berlin, New Jersey, United States
856-767-0206
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1948 - 2024
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